What a day!
I didn’t know being on the Vendor side of education was so different.
Both sides, private and public, is about relationships. If I don’t show that I genuinely care about who I am working with, then I am being dishonest about my emotions and intentions.
Kind of like smiling.
Can’t tell you how many people have told me that I smile a lot. I think it is because I have a large mouth and show my teeth.
Here’s my point.
A genuine smile is called a Duchenne smile that has these factors:
The zygomatic major muscle enlarges the cheeks and exposes the teeth.
The orbicularis oculi muscle also contracts creating the “crow’s feet behind our eyes and closing the eyes.
A fake smile usually consists only of the movement of the zygomatic major muscle. The heart is not in the situation and a fake smile is better than nothing to ward off any unwanted attention as to why no smile.
Facial expressions are used to convey the myriad of emotions and are hard to control if I am feeling what is happening to me. However, I can fake a pretty good smile.
Now that I know, you know, I need to show my care and intentions through actions and not just my face.
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